Communication

In a Dominant role, look for incongruencies in words and body language or energies of your Sub.

Even when assured your interactions are positive, seek reassurances. It will encourage communication from your Sub and install confidence that you are present.

Your words have power. Be confident, clear, and  concise. 

Establish the proper use of determined nicknames. 

The use of 3rd person allows for perspective and healing. It allows for greater acceptance. It also makes things easier to communicate.

Most subs appreciate truth. A Dom‘s words may be one the few places she truly hears it. 

Attaching and reinforcing the use of reassures the Sub that if ever she feel uneasy, she has a non judgmental or reactive repnose as expection.

Ask permissions, ask about fantasies, ask if they are enjoying themselves. 

A certain level of believabity lends to deeper explorations. Own it. You